with and now her ocd is quite severe. Her dad comes down once every couple of months to see her as she can no longer stay with her dad
When I got back, my daughter mentioned that her dad had woken her up by banging some cupboard doors, in front of her dad this was said. I said that’s fine I told your dad he could help himself to food and drink as I was out for a while. My daughter caught her dad going through drawers under my spare bed and also my wardrobe which is in my bedroom. Dad’s excuse was he was ‘bored’ 😬 😳? This all happened about five mins after I left the house.
When I left the room her dad said ‘you shouldn’t have told your mum I did that.’ ??? Our daughter is now being offish with me because I said her dads behaved inappropriately and won’t be trusted to stay here again without me here also. Daughter is prob embarrassed and tried sticking up for dad, saying he was just bored, I’m too easily offended.
I don’t want to betray her trust by speaking to him about this again. He obvs knows that I know. I’m not going to allow him to stay here alone again. What would you guys do? I’m not weird am I, this is totally over the line behaviour isn’t it? I might look in someone’s kitchen or bathroom cabinets if I’m at someone’s house but not a bedroom????I’m Lauren one of the parent supporters on Netmums. What a breach of privacy to look through your house like this.