If it’s been a while since your partner has suggested spending Sunday morning in bed, or kissed your neck like that or, really, shown any interest between the sheets, you’re not alone.
Why has my partner lost interest in sex? Pinpointing a problem can be complicated, but Morgan starts by ruling out physical issues including erectile disfunction or pain during sex, which is not uncommon for women postpartum, especially if they had a traumatic vaginal birth. The addition of certain medications, like many antidepressants and anti-anxiety drugs, can cause libido to drop, too.
And of course, even the best sex can get boring, if it turns into a habit. “If your routine is to watch Netflix, brush your teeth, turn off the lights and get into bed in the same positions, that’s not a fantastic recipe for desire,” says Morgan. 3 ways to score a steamier, more connected sex life Talk isn’t cheap, when it comes to keeping the spark alive. Open, honest communication is necessary for a healthy sex life–and it can take you to new and more satisfying places. Here’s how.