Cancer is a life-changing event that affects a patient physically, psychologically and socially, and the struggles of many cancer warriors go beyond having to face tough medical treatments. When Sarah was diagnosed with Stage 3 breast cancer in 2020, the last things on her mind were menopause and her marital relationship.
This affected her marriage. “My husband’s needs were not getting met. But it was difficult for him to talk about it. So his frustration showed in other areas. We kept arguing,” she told CNA Women. One in six women with a history of breast or gynaecological cancer who have a partner reported sexual dissatisfaction, she said, citing a study by NCCS and KK Women’s and Children’s Hospital .that affects a patient physically, psychologically and socially. Some of the side effects may be long-term,” said oncologist Dr Joline Lim, a consultant at the Department of Haematology-Oncology, National University Cancer Institute, Singapore ..
Weight gain is also a common side effect, especially for women who undergo hormonal therapy that causes changes in their hormonal function, and early menopause, said Dr Lim. Even though her old clothes don’t fit her anymore, she still has them. “I refuse to buy a bigger size. I just believe that some day, I will get there. Otherwise, you will be stuck in T-shirt and shorts and pyjamas.”Many loved ones and friends do not understand the long-term impact of the disease and treatment on cancer warriors.during treatment and that it can wane over time as they complete treatment and return to their pre-cancer lives,” said NCCS’ Asst Prof Teo.
One patient who had thyroid cancer said the removal of her lymph nodes resulted in allergies which caused her to be irritable all the time. “It is normal for the dynamic in a romantic or marital relationship to change during the cancer journey,” she said. “Sexual intimacy often takes a backseat, although many couples report continued or increased emotional closeness.”