I am an identical twin, and the bond that I share with my sister is unlike any other relationship in the world.
My sister is my best and closest friend in the whole universe. That being said, my sister has some mental health issues that are taxing on me. I love my sister more than anything in the world , but I have made it very clear to her that my life is my life and her life is her life and that I amThe letter writer “Not Feeling Like His Wife” should suggest counseling to her husband, who prioritizes his twin over her, to figure out that he is not just his brother’s twin; he is, in fact, his own person.
Once he lets the “but we’re the same person” mentality go, he will be able to see his brother for the individual that he is and not just see him as his “other half.” --Thank you for sharing your experience. You have clearly given a lot of thought to the relationship you have with your twin and your spouse.