Throughout my 14 years of working in the entertainment industry, I've learned that there will be many ups and downs in a dream pursuit. There will be obstacles, good days, and opportunities, and rejections.
For example, let's say you have contact information for a person who could potentially help you with your dream, but you're scared to contact them. You don't want to bother them and you're scared they won't want to help, so you decide not to contact them. That's a decision made from fear. The successful person may still have those fears, but they contact the person anyway because it could help their dream.
I can tell you this for sure: We're all really freaking talented at bullshit. Those stories we tell ourselves are not the truth. But we're pretty convincing, so we believe them. The real truth is this: Anything that goes"wrong" on your journey, or any time you're rejected — those events are neutral. They're not good — they're not bad.decide if it's good or bad. We fill in the blanks with why we think it happened.
Give your present a little watering. Trust that success will come when you're really good at the process. It's easy to want to make rash decisions about your next steps when you're feeling emotional. But that often leads to making decisions from fear. You can have your reaction. But don't respond until you've calmed down and can make decisions that support your dream .