The caveat to the above? Even if you fall into the former camp, vulva-owners might be able to use a dildo in a way that “works”. You could use your dildo while also rubbing your clit or simultaneously using a vibrator, or, if you have a vibrating dildo, you could grind on it at an angle where you hit your G-spot“It’s important to realise that there is a great misconception and expectation for women to easily climax from penetrative sex or dildos,” Cameron added.
“The thing that you mainly need to remember when you buy a dildo is to know that it is going to be inside you. So, when considering size, think about how tight you are, what size you’ve enjoyed when it comes to sexual partners and if you want a straight or curved shape. Usually, the curved shaped dildos are used to hit the G-spot. If you’re struggling to visualise the size you’re after, look at household items around you and get the tape measure out.
“Sex toys that are porous have tiny spaces within the material that can harbour bacteria and provide a friendly environment for unhealthy bacteria. So, it is always best to go for non-porous materials such as plastic and silicone sex toys. They’re easy to clean, safe and great for pleasure.”really is glorious,” Cameron said. “It's real-skin feel technology and ribbed-shaft makes it feel romantic and empowering.