Everything he says is excessive. There is no moderation. It’s 100 percent or nothing.
I was totally wrong talking to him the way I did. I sent apologies the next morning to him and to my daughter.I am not going to sit there with a smile on my face, while he goes on and on. That just encourages him.You don’t know yet what the effect of your outburst will be. It might have shocked him into compliance. It has likely affected your daughter’s interest in spending time with all of you together.
This man obviously has a passionate interest and obsessive personality, and he is dominating your get-togethers .The more you attack him , the more your daughter may feel forced closer to him. One woman, who I thought was a close friend, brought the other along and I grew to really like her. We enjoy them.It started out as seven days. Then they asked for two weeks, but I told them that 10 days was really my limit. One year, they invited a third woman along without even consulting me. I told them I wasn’t open to that.